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My Recommended Sites
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Information about the scene and scene play |
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Groups |
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Information
These are some noncommercial sites which I feel have valuable information. Please note, I may not agree with everything in all of these links, but I feel they are worth a look. Please also check the sites put up by groups (below) which also often contain valuable information.
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Sensuous Sadie: A collection of interviews with scene personalities and more. |
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Jay Wiseman's Homepage: Jay is the author of SM101 and <grin> the "John Warren of the West Coast" |
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Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts :-Live Erotic Dominance Weekend Intensives for Dominant Men, Woman and Switches-Private mentoring in San Francisco Dungeon |
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SubNation: The original SubNation website for newcomers to the submissive lifestyle. |
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Tristan Taormino is one of the better sexual information writers around and her Pucker Up webpage is packed with good information. She also wrote a book we have for sale: The Ultimate Guide to Anal Play for Women. |
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Match Stick's Homepage: This is THE place to come to learn about anal play and lots else |
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Verbatim: This isn't a webpage; it's a book about words, but it has a wonderful section by Michele Buchanan on BDSM terminology. |
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Erotic Vox: Good stories of loving BDSM and some excellent information |
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Vanilla-Not: Great site run by SirBad with lots of basic and advanced information |
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The SSBB Frequently Asked Questions Page |
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Bullwhip FAQ: Just what is says |
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SubHeaven: A really nice, thoughtful page by a scene couple with some really nice artwork |
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Kinky Links: A macro link page. All sorts of information |
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MsIn10sity's Home Page: MsIn10sity is a RL submissive with lots of great advice for her sisters in the scene. |
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Darkheart's Page: An excellent list of RT Groups |
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Japanese Bondage Examples |
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ThroTchr's Resource page |
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Lolita's Homepage: Lolita is a heavy but safe player. This has some great hints |
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FAQ for the Soc.Subculture.Bondage-BDSM Newsgroup |
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Deviate's Directory |
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Kink-Aware Professionals |
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BDSM Medical Advice |
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DeSade's Dungeon: Stories, legal advice, group list and scene advice |
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D/s World: An E-Zine with some really good stuff in it. |
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D/s Haven: A well done site with a chat room and some good writing |
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Sex Toys and Sexuality Digest: Largely vanilla but the information is good and there is a significant amount of BDSM information. |
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Commercial Sites
These are commercial sites which I feel are run by people who have something to offer.
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Singletails in the Scene: This site has a 111 minute videotape by Roger Stevens, a highly skilled whipmaster. |
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Alternative Albany: A nice combination of commercial site and blog center |
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Sultry Adult Fashions: Some nice corsets and stuff |
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BDSM Village: A very neat multi-purpose site including shopping, information and even pay-to-view courses. |
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SamCo: One of the first purpose-built toys I ever bought was a paddle from SamCo. It's just as great now as it was over a decade ago. |
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Foxy Lady's Site: A neat combination of health and BDSM books, tapes and other things |
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Barbara Nitke: One of the finest fetish photographers around |
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Eros Boutique: A really nice shop in Boston for the kinky set |
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Dominance Loving Leather: Whips and such for those in the SouthWest |
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Greenery Press: The best BDSM publisher around and the guys who publish The Loving Dominant. |
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Lust of the Eyes: Lee Stranhan does professional level erotic photos that have been used by a number of publishers including Greenery Press. |
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Master Dread makes some of the neatest dungeon furniture around. |
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Chaotic Creations: I don't carry much in jewelry, but for these folks, it is their business and they have some damned nice stuff. |
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BDSM Groups
I'm a strong booster of face-to-face groups. Here are a few which seem to be doing a fine job.
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Spice: A wonderful social and educational group in Southern Florida and our current scene home |
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Immediate Family: To provide non-discriminatory non-medical acute crisis intervention, shelter, information and/or program referrals to persons in qualified emergency situations regardless of gender identification, race, creed, religion, color, sexual preference, or handicap for a 3 to 7day period. |
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Boston Dungeon Society: My baby <grin> |
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The Round Table: A Southeast Iowa discussion Group |
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Society of Janus : San Francisco |
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The Eulenspigel Society (TES) : NYC |
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At Ease: Baltimore |
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Upstate NY Society of Kink |
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The SSBB Diplomatic Corps: A loosely organized group of kinksters who offer support for travelers and others. |
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BDSM Vancouver |
Allies
There are some good people out there, and many of them need our help both through volunteering, joining in letter-writing campaigns and sending money.
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Fighting Hate: This group's mission is to inform, motivate and organize alternative sexual interest communities to respond to threats to their rights in a law-abiding manner. |
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National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: A national advocacy rights group. They have successfully worked with several groups under attack. |
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Electronic Frontier Foundation: They are an excellent source for information about invasions of our personal privacy and attempts to limit our freedom of speech. |
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